Let me start bothering you with a simple question.
Do you feel your days are dull and monotonous and there is nothing worthy in your life?
When you meet people, there is always a fixed smile on your face to show the world that you are happy with your life.
But you know what is the truth and you have an extreme need of finding your happiness now.
If you take a closer look at the phrase ‘find your happiness’ then you will understand one thing.
To find something we have to lose it first.
It means that you were happy one day and suddenly some demon took all the happiness out and capture it far away from your reach.
Do you really believe in such a fairy tales?
I believe these tales always have a message for us to discover.
The demon is none other than our adulthood. When we grow up we start struggling with our life.
You have to learn to be happy with what you have.
We are so busy in our lives that we forget our happiness soon.
And one day we wake up feeling stressed, tired and sad.
Did you get it?
If you think you are the one who needs to find their way to real happiness.
Keep reading this article.
“Be willing to be a beginner every single Morning.”
― Meister Eckhart
I used to have an adventurous habit in my childhood.
My friends and I used to go to school by bicycle.
You can still try it.
The habit we had that we would discover an unknown street towards the direction of our school on Saturday.
The game was so exciting because we never knew where the street would take us.
But we always believed that we would find our way to school.
That is the point Eckhart made in above quotation.
You have to try new things every morning.
Make a painting, read a new book, learn a new musical instrument or join a gym. Whatever you like You can do that thing
The choice is yours.
If you don’t find something new in your life then try doing existing activity in a different way.
Add something new to your list you don’t know to cook in your breakfast or find out a new style of doing yoga.
Begin something new in your life and you will see the difference in your level of happiness from the first day.
Believe in yourself, listen to your gut, and do what you love.
― Dylan Lauren
We are living a life we did not choose for ourselves.
Our parents decide what is good for us. The college we will go, the career we will follow and so many other things.
We never have the courage to oppose them and always have only one choice, to obey them.
That is where a conflict starts in our lives.
We live such a life which we never dream to live. This is enough to destroy our precious happiness we have.
Most of us come in this category and think that it’s too late to start again.
But you can not be living like this forever. You have to take the control of your life in your hands.
Decide what you want to do with your life and then show courage to go for it.
You won’t have to depend on movies, parties or anything else for your happiness, excitement, and satisfaction.
If you do the same what you love.
“If you are never alone, you cannot know yourself.”
― Paulo Coelho
This teaching from renowned writer Paulo Coelho has a deep meaning.
Tell me one thing.
What is the best way to know someone?
We can talk to him and find out. Right?
Then why don’t you use this idea to know yourself?
Yes, You are right.
I am talking about to spend time alone and think about your life.
Ask yourselves following questions today:
- What can you do to make your relationships healthy?
- Are you living your life the best possible way?
- Why you feel exhausted, boring and weak all the time?
- Here add a question to ask yourself.
And then try to find out their answers. You can’t walk forward with your problems.
Change these problems into the best opportunities of your life.
You will be surprised with the results.
“Coming out of your comfort zone is tough in the beginning, chaotic in the middle, and awesome in the end…because in the end, it shows you a whole new world !!
Make an attempt..”
― Manoj Arora
When you leave your comfort zone, You make a choice to discover, to live and to become more than you present.
Either you hit the track in your jogging pants or you leave your job to pursue your passion.
It is always hard to initiate a change in your life. And when you show courage to do it anyway.
You have to deal with the challenges and obstacles that you never faced in your life.
That is what you need right now. A little adventure, a little drama in your life.
Then you don’t have to worry about your happiness. Because this time your happiness will last longer than usual.
“IF YOU DON’T CHASE AFTER YOUR DREAMS SOMEONE WILL PAY YOU TO BUILD THEIRS”
― TONY GASKINS
You read it.
Okay, now read it again.
What do you understand from this quotation?
The importance of chasing your dreams is more than any other thing in your life.
Most people give up their dreams without even making a single effort.
Then they blame their parents and their children for their sufferings and struggles.
Make sure you don’t make this mistake in your life.
Find out your path to your dream life and without hesitating for a moment, take the first step to make them possible.
I hope you like this article.
And it helps you treasure the most amazing thing you will need in your life that is your happiness.
In the end, I will leave you with one of my favorite thoughts.
“You don’t smile because you are happy but you are happy because you smile.”
Keep smiling. Thank You!